Loving yourself is an important part of enjoying and getting the most out of your life. It's also important for get and maintain a satisfying relationships with others. Loving yourself is mainly having self-respect, which is the only dependable way to create love in your own life. To be able to be loved, you must love and respect yourself as much as you do others.

Stop trying to be perfect. Stop criticizing yourself for not being  perfect. Always do your best and always know that by not achieving what u want u not a failure ... Remember that no matter what, you will always be perfect just the way you are, flaws and all.





Stop comparing yourself to others. Everyone o is unique. We all have different gifts. When you compare yourself to others, it makes you feel bad about yourself.

What a sad day today i am so confused why some other things have to happen. Last week thursday i arrived late for my first class, as i came in the lecture gave me  the activity. A while later other students arrived, few minutes  later the lecturer was asking about her memorundum that is lost she searched everyone no one admitted that he/she took the memo and she said she is not going to give us the answers well the class ended.

On wensday the lecture came to with names saying that she checked our answers and it seems like we were coping from her memo, so she wont mark our papers because i was one of the students that arrived late for class therefore this matter will taken further because this is a serious offence. I am not blaming the lecture but i am so sad because i do not know anything about the memo but this has taught me a lesson that i must always arrive in time for class.

Things we sometimes do affect us in life for example I havev noticed that most of the student do the same mistakes over and over again i am writting about this because i am one of the students who do same mistakes over and over again this worries me because it feels like i am not learning from my mistakes. Last week we had a power point presantation, in this presentation we had to give our lecture a hard copy for marks we failed to do that and that came with a failed result wish made me think why did this happen.  It because we lack time management because i can not say it is lack of intrest because our topic was intresting.

This are the things that most student fail to do but this year i will make sure that this wont happen again because this has affected me emotional and in my marks.

Varsity life

My biggest struggle while I was in first year was time management. There was just a lot of work to cover from the different modules, and on top of that, I had to make time for sleeping socializing time, attending lectures, first year activities and the list goes on and on. So learning how to manage your time will help you in your day-to-day varsity life and you’ll have loads of fun in the process and less stress. Make use of the counseling facilities at your varsity so that they can help you map out a schedule that will be good for you.

As much as varsity is fun and you’re on your own, it teaches you to be responsible for yourself because there’s no one there to baby you and smack your hand when you do something wrong.

6 way of being a good student

• Prioritize your life: Doing well in school should be your top priority.
• Study: There is no substitute.
• Always attend class.
• Do all of the homework and assigned reading.
• Develop self-discipline.
• Manage your time. 

In time management there are few things need to be done in order to master this skill, I call this a skill because you  learn it some people are born with it.

coffee shop progres

The excitement I had when I was first told a bout the coffee shop it made realise that school is not about always engaging with your books but you can acquire a skill but still having fun with other students. The theme for our coffee shop is vintage we were clueless about this theme until we went to Mr google who showed us every thing about this theme, I know people will wonder why I am calling him Mr but that for me to know and for you to find out oh, where was I ohhhh I was talking about our coffee shop our lecture taught us to greet, serve and set the table. We had to research our own recipes that are suitable for the coffee shop  that was very interesting and it gave us time to know more about food. We had to develop our own center piece and also develop or own decopage I know you asking yo self what is decopage well it "Decoupage—from the French word découper, meaning to cut out—is a craft or art form that entails pasting cut-outs (typically paper) to an object and then covering them with several coats of varnish or lacquer'. We dicided on a soft music and it will be very pleasant. Our marketing strategies was to make small menus that we will take to each department. The ecxitment i had about this coffee shop vanished into thin air because of the pressure that we always have

FIRST YEAR IN DUT
when i recieved a letter of acceptance frm dut i was so excited because i wished for this for a long time. asd i set my foot in the yards of dut i told my self that i will work hard so that my dreams can be fullfil, but there were so many challenges that led me to poor concetration and failed my first 2 tests but i told my self that is not the4 end of the world will just have to dust my self and carryb on being a go getter. As from there i dedicted my self in everything that i do for school and kept me going even though sometimes you work hard study but at the end of the day you can get a fail but that doesnt distract me. Now we looking forward to writting our exams aned theb year it coming to an end oh how i love to be a student